Have you ever thought about this?
What would you do if you had a chance to express yourself?
I don’t know you, but I can speak for myself. If I had the last chance to express myself, I would choose to proceed like this:
I have no words to express how amazing my life is. My life would be a sad and pathetic one if it weren’t for all the people, creatures, and situations I have been allowed to experience. …
The essential question to answer is — “How does a perfect day look like for you?”
When you search for answers to this question, forget about if such a day is in reach for you. Such considerations would only limit your phantasy and your outcome.
Instead, it is crucial to have a vivid imagination of the specifics.
For answering that question, please imagine that you do not need to worry about the following things:
There are so many books, talks, and papers on codependency that it is easy to lose track, especially since there is no one-size-fits-all definition.
It is common knowledge that codependency somehow occurs in families and relationships with one or several addicts. Very often, the media cites the following as the main characteristic of codependency:
A codependent person only feels strong when the addict is and remains weak. They derive their self-esteem from caring for someone more vulnerable, the addicted partner, parent, or child, and by repeatedly patronizing them from the downward spiral. …