…d not harm what they love. No matter how strong it is, love is always only one of many motivations. Just as a person might wear a suit to a formal function and something more casual in an informal setting, it is perfectly natural for a man to neatly put away his love for his wife to engage in an activity requiring a very different sort of dress.
Will he lie to her when telling her where he is about to go, or where he has been?
If he lies to her, then this is something else but not love.
It might be paternalism, power games, plain greed, superficiality, or similar, I don´t know. But what I do know for sure: a deliberate double life.
I dont judge here, I just describe the fact.
And now my judgement: That is nothing like love but toxic madness.
Tell me, really , with your hand on your heart— who would choose such a relationship for their sacred, magic, phenomenal and freaking one and only life?